This is a book I often recommend to clients to help them reflect on what assumptions they have inherited on how relationships should work and whether they want to hold onto, be more flexible about, or rip up the old rulebook.
I am a huge admirer of the author, Meg-John Barker (please check out their other works at https://www.rewriting-the-rules.com). Brilliant, fresh, accessible and friendly, Meg-John is a leading voice in much we need to know about modern relationships (and sex, attraction, consent, monogamy, love, commitment, conflict, breakups….). An icon of gender, sexuality and relationship diversity in fact.